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Child custody : Mother's love is essential but does not automatically guarantee custody

LAW FINDER NEWS NETWORK | 10/24/2025, 4:24:00 AM
Child custody : Mother's love is essential but does not automatically guarantee custody

Madras High Court Upholds Father's Custody of Child in Divorce Case. Court emphasizes child's welfare as paramount, granting visitation rights to mother despite her claims of desertion and cruelty.


The Madras High Court, in a significant ruling, upheld the decision of the Family Court in Thiruchirapalli, granting custody of an eight-year-old girl to her father, D. Karthikeyan, while allowing visitation rights to the mother, S. Vatshala. This decision came amidst a legal tussle that involved claims of cruelty, desertion, and the mother’s plea for custody based on the tender years doctrine.


The Division Bench, comprising Justices Mr. P. Velmurugan and L. Victoria Gowri, dismissed the appeals filed by Vatshala against the Family Court's judgments in two separate proceedings: one for custody under the Guardians and Wards Act, 1890, and another for restitution of conjugal rights and divorce under the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955.


In the custody dispute, the court prioritized the child's welfare, noting the continuous and stable living arrangement with the father and paternal grandmother since 2013. The court found that the child was well-settled, attached to her father and grandmother, and thriving in her current environment. Despite Vatshala's arguments invoking the tender years doctrine, the court held that disrupting the child's settled life could be detrimental to her well-being. The court granted visitation rights to the mother, ensuring the child benefits from the affection of both parents.


The court also addressed the matrimonial disputes between the parties. It upheld the trial court's findings that Vatshala had deserted Karthikeyan without reasonable cause, thereby affirming the decree of divorce on the grounds of desertion. The court found that Vatshala left the matrimonial home voluntarily in February 2013, taking her belongings, and made no efforts to resume cohabitation or secure custody of the child for over two years. This period of separation, coupled with the husband's relocation and the child's admission to school, supported the claim of desertion.


On the issue of restitution of conjugal rights, the court ruled against Vatshala, citing her failure to prove that Karthikeyan withdrew from her society without reasonable excuse. The evidence, particularly her acknowledgment of taking away her jewelry and household items, indicated her voluntary separation.


This ruling underscores the judiciary's approach to custody disputes where the child's welfare remains the primary consideration, often outweighing parental rights. It also highlights the importance of continuous care and attachment in determining custody, rather than solely relying on the biological or gender-based role of the parents.


The judgment clarifies that pending or future proceedings regarding custody, visitation, or maintenance will be considered independently, without being influenced by the findings on marital status. Both parties have been given the liberty to seek appropriate legal avenues for ancillary reliefs.


Bottom Line:

Welfare of the child to be the paramount consideration in custody disputes; mother's love is essential but does not automatically guarantee custody if other factors favor the father.


Statutory provision(s): Guardians and Wards Act, 1890, Section 17; Hindu Marriage Act, 1955, Section 13(1)(i-b) and Section 9.


S. Vatshala v. D. Karthikeyan, (Madras)(DB)(Madurai Bench) : Law Finder Doc Id # 2795448

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